5 Signs That Your Best Friend is Sleeping With Your Partner
Best friends are people that we rely on for almost everything, from sharing the fun occasions in life with, right up to our hardest times. They are an anchor, accompanying you through the twist and turns that you face in life, and during all that time, there is an unspoken bond of love and the promise to do anything for each other.
But, what if the anchor is sabotaging the ship? There have been people left in the heartbreak lane as they’d watched their partners pair up with their best friends as their own relationship faltered making them having a double life. This can be extremely hurtful and at the same time, damaging to your bond as best friends. Should you suspect that there is something going on between them and your partner, here’s how to find our if your best friend has been going around behind your back and sleeping with your partner.
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#1 He Talks About Her
He talks about her and only her. You’ll notice your best friend’s name pop-up in almost every conversation. From the way she dresses, to the way she carries herself, everything will be mentioned and it will become somewhat of a comparison between you and your best friend. Boys don’t pay that much attention to someone unless they actually fancy the person so if your partner noticed that your best friend had a new dress on rather than your new haircut, you know something’s up.
#2 He Texts/Calls Her
In short, your partner has no real reason to be texting or calling your best friend. If you notice that your partner has been ringing up your best friend a couple of times, especially at night, you can be fairly certain that you have a booty-call situation on your hands. Also, if your partner gets defensive when you ask them about their texts to your best friend, that just strengthens the notion that there is something going on between the two of them.
#3 He Follows Her On Social Media
A simple follow may not be anything that could cause harm to your relationship but when your partner starts hitting like at every picture or post from your best friend, you may want to be a little bit more wary about what is going on between your best friend and your partner. No one takes that much painstaking effort to like and comment on someone’s social media unless they are really into that person, let’s be real.
#4 He Asks About Her Boyfriends
You can just brush it off as curiosity, if you like, but if your partner becomes inquisitive of who your best friend has been dating and how many people she has dated before, that’s a red flag. Inquiring into someone’s past love life is a way of gauging their love interest type and is also a way to see if they might be interested in a new relationship, so be extra careful if your boyfriend suddenly shows a little bit more care towards who your best friend is with at the moment.
#5 He Invites Her To Everything
From your dinner parties to his game nights, you see your best friend almost all the time at your place. Aside from that, they both seem to be bonding well over discussions of similar interest while you sit there as if you were the third-wheel. This may be unplanned and your partner may just be accommodating to your best friend but if he starts inviting her over when you’re not around, you best believe that something fishy is going on between your best friend and your lover.
Best friends are the people that we trust with our life but some people don’t really value the noble position bestowed upon them and have no regrets stealing partners away from friends that they have known for years, friends who consider them family. If you suspect that your partner has been texting someone in secret and it’s a number you don’t recognize, it could be that your best friend got a new number just to secretly talk to your boyfriend.
Disclaimer:
The above is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute a legal advice or specific recommendations in any way.
