Is Your Partner Leading A Double Life
Having a partner that you can talk to and trust completely, a soulmate, if you will, is the best thing anyone could ever ask for in a relationship. The connection that forms between the two of you is inexplicably intense yet at the same time needs constant nurturing from both sides to keep the fire going. The trust and honesty in the relationship is what keeps everything together and forms this unbreakable bond between two people that can even last a lifetime.
But, what happens when all that crumbles into dust and you find out that your partner has been living a double life, all this time? Some people are just highly manipulative and they know the right ways to steer you into behaving and acting the way they want you to, in order to achieve their own personal goals. They secretly may be having an affair, could be a gang member, or are involved in a grand scale crime organization, even have a second family that you didn’t know about, all while professing their love to you.
Such manipulative behaviour often come with tell-tale signs. If you watch for them really closely, you may uncover some truths about your partner and the second life that they are leading.
How To Know If Your Partner As A Double Life
#1 Secrets Everywhere
This is no-brainer. If you keep finding secrets popping up everywhere, from hidden bills to secret emails from his secret baby mama, you know that your partner has been hiding something from you for a long time now. Text messages from unknown numbers can also be another sign of your partner having a secret life, which could be an extramarital relationship or even them being part of an organized criminal association. Pay close attention to small details such as bills, texts and letters, they can tell you lots of things.
#2 Sweet Talk
People who have something to hide often resort to sweet talking in order to mask their secret affairs and illegal businesses. Constant, unsolicited compliments over almost nothing is already a red flag that your partner may be drawing your attention away from the things that they have been hiding from you. Such behavior is also commonly associated to narcissism, which may cause additional problems such as anger and abusive tendencies, in the long-run. Be aware of such empty praises and niceties, they may be shrouding your view of the bigger issues at hand.
#3 Never-ending Excuses
You will find that your partner comes up with lots of excuses when they have something that they have been keeping away from you. Whether it’s missed phone calls, dinner dates and even important family events, there is always a reason for it. People who really care for their partners will always find the time to spend with their other halves and excuses are not even an option in their books. Should your partner be trying to excuse themselves from all of your important days and dates, you may want to opt to excuse them from your life.
Should your partner be displaying any of these signs, best believe that they have been hiding a whole different side of themselves. Be it involvement in drugs, crime or even with other partners, there is something that they have been keeping in wraps and away from public scrutiny all this time and you have a right to find out what that secret is.
Confront your partner amicably about your suspicions and try to talk it out.
Disclaimer:
The above is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute a legal advice or specific recommendations in any way.
